So...what makes someone "hot" in your opinion?

[KSGregman]

Straight question...

What makes a person "hot" to you? I don't mean the casual "yeah, that's a good looking girl or guy" hot but the "Drop what I'm doing so I can go find out more about that person" hot.

How he or she looks? What he or she says? How he or she says it? Some combination of all of the above?

What?

[Particle Man]

it's a mixture of all of the above and a nice ass :lol:

[shmike]

Funny you should post this.

It can be any number of reasons for me but I'll tell you one thing that I do find hot: WINTER CLOTHES. :whatwhat:

I know you guys will think I'm a freak but it's true. Besides, living in S. Florida, seeing a chick in a long coat and scarf with knee high "fuck me" boots is a rarity.

This cold front has been nice in that regard. :lol:

[Particle Man]

Funny you should post this.

It can be any number of reasons for me but I'll tell you one thing that I do find hot: WINTER CLOTHES. :whatwhat:

I know you guys will think I'm a freak but it's true. Besides, living in S. Florida, seeing a chick in a long coat and scarf with knee high "fuck me" boots is a rarity.

This cold front has been nice in that regard. :lol:

that's cuz you get to unwrap the present to get to the good stuff :lol:

[karl_1052]

Funny you should post this.

It can be any number of reasons for me but I'll tell you one thing that I do find hot: WINTER CLOTHES. :whatwhat:

I know you guys will think I'm a freak but it's true. Besides, living in S. Florida, seeing a chick in a long coat and scarf with knee high "fuck me" boots is a rarity.

This cold front has been nice in that regard. :lol:

It seems to be the opposite up here. I can't wait for spring.:rockwoot:

[Speedracer42]

It has to be a combination. For my current gf it was seeing her unzip her leathers after getting off her Gixxer that caught my eye, and I literally said to my friends who the fuck is that, and why don't I know her? But it was how amazing she was as a person that made that interest stay and cont to grow

[shmike]

It seems to be the opposite up here. I can't wait for spring.:rockwoot:

I know.

A few years back, I commuted back and forth to Boston for a year starting in October.

At the first sign of warm weather, all the guys couldn’t wait for our Friday night pub crawl. They would get all excited about “seeing some skin!” It was like being back in grade school.

I had to tell them that living on the beach it was more exciting for me to see the chicks in their Burberry scarves. :lol:

[Rider]

How do you explain hot? It a combination of a lot of things. Visually it's eyes, complexion, (must have good skin) lips, smile, hair, boobs, flat stomach, round ass, and clothes...she must have style. Tons of makeup is a turn off but a tramp stamp or a few strategically placed tattoos are very hot. Visible tattoos when dressed for work would be an automatic disqualification though. Voice is also a super turn on too, the tone and the speed at what she speaks and if there is any accent. As far as what she says, I don't give a shit, I won't be listening anyway unless she is whispering sweet nothing to me. Having a high sex drive is also must have.

[CrazyKell]

I like a guy with a wicked sense of humour, mischevious eyes, and a look that says he's not trying too hard. Someone who can give as good as they get "witty wise" with me....that's hot.

[KSGregman]

I like a guy with a wicked sense of humour, mischevious eyes, and a look that says he's not trying to hard. Someone who can give as good as they get "witty wise" with me....that's hot.

This...except I prefer a girl. :lmao:

Self confident...without being arrogant...I'd add that to the list too.

[azoomm]

Self confident...without being arrogant...I'd add that to the list too.

^^This can just do me in.

A man who knows what he wants without feeling the need to stalk gets to the top of my list.

[Papa_Complex]

A brain like Einstein, the fashion sense of a corporate CEO, and the body of a 17 year old cheerleader.

[itgirl]

a dude with a nice thick neck and shaved head will always catch my eye. i love to workout, so being physically fit is also a plus.

[unknownroad]

Tight clothes and sexual sadism :dthumb:

[lauralynne]

confidence, independance, intellegence...and a gorgeous ass.

[Bluestreak]

Smart, funny and great tits!

Personality is actually more important to me in the long run than anything else, but great tits are still high on the list.

Ron White said it something like this...

You can buy new boobs
You can get a butt lift
You can get a tummy tuck

But you can't fix stupid.

[anthonyk]

"Hot" is all visual for me. If you've also got confidence, intelligence, and the ability to show off both of those without being an ass, chances are good I'll keep talking to you. Otherwise, you're just another hot girl who's easy on the eyes.

[the chi]

Intelligence
Wit
Self confidence
Self knowledge (as in he knows who he is and what he wants in life)
a desire to try new things and not stick to the same old
And someone who can talk to me as me, not as a pair of boobs or other attributes

[OneSickPsycho]

Face
Body
Personality
Intelligence

In that order, like a hierarchy of needs... Nothing else matters if the face isn't pretty. If the body is good, then the personality has gotta be awesome, and once all that is sorted out... She's gotta be smart.

That being said, it's funny how working back through that list from the bottom up can compensate for a lack of things higher in the list. Fuck you Maslow.

[Kerry_129]

And someone who can talk to me as me, not as a pair of boobs or other attributes

You women are just so darn picky! :lol

For me:

- 'Genuineness' and lack of pretentiousness/guile, open/friendly disposition, ability to flirt & be sexy without being over-the-top (too much, and it verges into that pretentious category)
- HONEST, empathetic, and genuinely caring about people (not just giving lip-service to being 'nice', but actually giving a damn about other people & how their actions/words affect them)
- Intelligence, wit & an assertive personality with strong opinions (but without striving to 'be a bitch' or 'has to be right')

Don't get me wrong - I'd be lying if I said a great pair of :boobs: /pretty face/smokin' bod don't factor heavily into my perception of 'hottness', but beyond that initial superficial 'WoW' factor the personality has GOT to be there in order for me to feel someone is truly 'hot', and the personal traits trump the physical ones in my book.


Oh - riding a GSXR doesn't hurt either.... :p

[Dave]

facial features and personality count the most but having long legs a tight ass and a great rack never hurt ;)

[Kerry_129]

facial features and personality count the most...

Count the most when looking at them & wanting to introduce them Mr. Happy, or on an actual day-to-day relationship basis?

I agree, great physical attributes certainly don't hurt - but worrying too much about that stuff and not enough about the other has been the downfall of many men, IMO.

[Papa_Complex]

Funny you should post this.

It can be any number of reasons for me but I'll tell you one thing that I do find hot: WINTER CLOTHES. :whatwhat:

I know you guys will think I'm a freak but it's true. Besides, living in S. Florida, seeing a chick in a long coat and scarf with knee high "fuck me" boots is a rarity.

This cold front has been nice in that regard. :lol:

Here you go.

You're welcome.

[JARVIS518]

so sean if u ever make it up here to i take it the wife isnt comming?

[Amber Lamps]

a dude with a nice thick neck and shaved head will always catch my eye. i love to workout, so being physically fit is also a plus.

I'm 2/3 of the way there!!! Woo HOOO!

[Amber Lamps]

WHAT'S THE DEAL ON THESE THREADS? Weird...

"Hot" doesn't necessarily equal "relationship material". The question is what is hot and I propose that it's a matter of a purely physical/facade nature. Hot is fuckable/ sexually attractive. Finding out that Megan Fox is an idiot will not stop her from being hot.

All of the normal physical attributes with an air of not being too available but not being out of reach either. I want her to appear intelligent but not beat me with it. An angel with a slut lurking just behind the eyes. Someone who cares about their appearance but is not obsessed with it. Oh and please have some self confidence, yeesh!

[defector]

Was it Ludacris that said: A lady on the street, and a freak in the bed?

[lauralynne]

Here you go.

You're welcome.

I am quite confused by this photo - her cleavage is VERY low, bad surgery or bad photoshop??

[Captain Morgan]

WHAT'S THE DEAL ON THESE THREADS? Weird...

"Hot" doesn't necessarily equal "relationship material". The question is what is hot and I propose that it's a matter of a purely physical/facade nature. Hot is fuckable/ sexually attractive. Finding out that Megan Fox is an idiot will not stop her from being hot.

All of the normal physical attributes with an air of not being too available but not being out of reach either. I want her to appear intelligent but not beat me with it. An angel with a slut lurking just behind the eyes. Someone who cares about their appearance but is not obsessed with it. Oh and please have some self confidence, yeesh!

That pretty much sums it up. Hot is physical appearance, and to me it starts with the face, usually the eyes. Looks are what gets me to stop and take a look. All of the other stuff past appearance only applies if I want to be in a long term relationship.

[Papa_Complex]

I am quite confused by this photo - her cleavage is VERY low, bad surgery or bad photoshop??

Small girl, biggish hooters. Page3 in the UK had a referendum a few years back and the readers decided that they only wanted "natural" women from that point on. No silicone.

NSFW - http://www.page3.com/girl/vikki_blows/index.shtml

[Amorok]

A girl is sexy to me if she has a great smile with good teeth. A pretty face that's not overly made up, along with a proportionate body. She doesn't have to be in perfect shape but if I can tell she takes care of herself that's sexy. That girl becomes hot when I talk to her and see that she is confident, comfortable with herself, not afraid to laugh at herself or me, and willing to have fun and try new things.

By contrast, a girl who is overly emotional, insecure, humorless, possessed of an overly high opinion of herself, and takes things too seriously is not hot, no matter what she looks like. That girl, is a bitch.

[dReWpY]

Depends if we are taking hot or other
Hot is what matters upon first inspection, kinda like a one night thing
Everything else is what matters in the morning

[Kerry_129]

Depends if we are taking hot or other
Hot is what matters upon first inspection, kinda like a one night thing
Everything else is what matters in the morning


Good summation.
Personally, I've never had or had the desire to do the 'one night thing' and 'fuck some hot bitch' because and only because of what she looks like. I may be in the minority that way, but I like that fact - especially since if you take her home for that one-night-stand, you can damn sure bet that you're far from the first to do so. No thanks!

[Cruzergirl]

Confidence is key. Of course, a tall blond toned (not bulk, just tone) man will always catch my eye but it is his confidence and sharp wit that will keep me around.

I dated a good looking man with very little confidence (always looking to me for reassurance) for a few weeks. I didn't think he was so good looking when I broke it off with him.

[HurricaneHeather]

Tall, lanky and nerdy. :shrug:

I will say though that nerdy has it's boundaries. I'm attracted to shy guys, but they are afraid of me I get really irritated. Also, nerdy guys that are good at sports or sporty things is super mega hot. Before we were dating I watched my husband kick ass playing dodge ball(he's a skinny nerd) and I want to jump his bones right there. :lol:

[Captain Morgan]

Tall, lanky and nerdy. :shrug:

I will say though that nerdy has it's boundaries. I'm attracted to shy guys, but they are afraid of me I get really irritated. Also, nerdy guys that are good at sports or sporty things is super mega hot. Before we were dating I watched my husband kick ass playing dodge ball(he's a skinny nerd) and I want to jump his bones right there. :lol:

You would like Trip. :lol:

[racedoll]

Read all the posts and thought about this and I can't really say exactly what hot is to me.

Maybe the eyes first, then the rest of the body - how he holds himself (self-confident, etc).
Personality matters as well but initially it will be the looks to catch my eye.

I like a man that smells good too, that is probably the number one turn on for me. Oh or if you are in your leathers/uniform. :drool:

[Dave]

Count the most when looking at them & wanting to introduce them Mr. Happy, or on an actual day-to-day relationship basis?

I agree, great physical attributes certainly don't hurt - but worrying too much about that stuff and not enough about the other has been the downfall of many men, IMO.

counts the most period. i have a couple of rules when it comes to mates

#1 if i cant pick it up i cant put it down
#2 i wont bed anyone i dont like
#3 i wont cheat

this falls under rule 2 :boobs:

[t-homo]

Good summation.
Personally, I've never had or had the desire to do the 'one night thing' and 'fuck some hot bitch' because and only because of what she looks like. I may be in the minority that way, but I like that fact - especially since if you take her home for that one-night-stand, you can damn sure bet that you're far from the first to do so. No thanks!

See, I don't want any sort of a long term relationship. Never been a fan of being tied down to anything and don't like people worrying about me all of the time. I don't really go for one night stands so much as for girls to be regulars with. "Fuck buddies" if you like the term. I look for girls who are attractive with a decent personality. I like them enough to be around em on a semi regular basis, but not as important as if I was with someone almost daily for a long period of time. Clingy is a definite turn off.

[fnfalman]

I like a rich chick whose family owns a liquor story.

[Tsunami]

European accents- Scottish, Irish, British

[dReWpY]

Edited

[Amber Lamps]

Edited

Checking PMs...Hmmmm....

[goof2]

I like a rich chick whose family owns a liquor story.

Don't set such low standards, it should be "owns a chain of liquor stores".:lol:

[OneNotSoSickPsycho]

Confidence, Sense of humor, Intellience, Nice lips and smile, and I LOOOOVE GOOD EYEBROWS. :whatwhat:

[Rangerscott]

Don't set such low standards, it should be "owns a chain of liquor stores".:lol:

Nah. When she gets bitchy she can't kick you out. Just be on the good side of the in laws and you're good to go.

[LeeNetworX]

Confidence, Sense of humor, Intellience, Nice lips and smile, and I LOOOOVE GOOD EYEBROWS. :whatwhat:

What do you consider to be good eyebrows?

[OneNotSoSickPsycho]

What do you consider to be good eyebrows?

lol I can't explain it. Definitely not groomed, womanly eyebrows, but...hmm, how can I explain this?
Someone who can use their eyebrows expressively, but not excessive. OSP has AMAZING eyebrows! And I like thick eyebrows...not grossly thick, but natural sexy guy eyebrows. :lol:

(I've obviously never explained it before...)

[askmrjesus]

Confidence, Sense of humor, Intellience, Nice lips and smile, and I LOOOOVE GOOD EYEBROWS. :whatwhat:

Confidence? Check.

Sense of humor? Check.

Intelligence? Check.

Nice lips and smile? Check and check.

Eyebrows? Did you say eyebrows? Oh yeah baby, have I got a guy for you....

JC

[askmrjesus]

Hey! I found his Facebook page!

Leon's mood is currently: Wistful.

JC

[OneNotSoSickPsycho]

Eeeeewwwwwww!!! :lol:

Those are NOT the eyebrows I was talking about! :lol

[askmrjesus]

Eeeeewwwwwww!!! :lol:

Those are NOT the eyebrows I was talking about! :lol

Leon's mood is currently: Depressed. :(

JC

[OneNotSoSickPsycho]

http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d15/hyperchikbaby07/goodeyebrows.jpg

http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d15/hyperchikbaby07/IMG_2006.jpg:whatwhat:

[Captain Morgan]

Eeeeewwwwwww!!! :lol:

Those are NOT the eyebrows I was talking about! :lol

Of course not, because that is only eyebrow. You would need two guys like him to actual see eyebrows.

[Amber Lamps]

http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d15/hyperchikbaby07/goodeyebrows.jpg

http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d15/hyperchikbaby07/IMG_2006.jpg:whatwhat:

Reason #8 why my GF will never be on this or any forum I am on!

[Tsunami]

http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d15/hyperchikbaby07/goodeyebrows.jpg

http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d15/hyperchikbaby07/IMG_2006.jpg:whatwhat:

Wow he does have good shaped eyebrows!

[smileyman]

I just like women. I can always find something hot or sexy to appreciate. Overall though I just like to see them take care of themselves. Not overly made up, but not running around in PJs and furry calf boots.

[racedoll]

I like a rich chick whose family owns a liquor story.

liquor story? :lol:

[Kerry_129]

I just like women. I can always find something hot or sexy to appreciate. Overall though I just like to see them take care of themselves. Not overly made up, but not running around in PJs and furry calf boots.

:dthumb: Caring about their appearance & tastefully showing their ermm.... better assets... - but not being overly flashy/tacky (not that flashy/tacky can't be hot & fun to look at! :lol: ) I think the 'looks easy/flaky' thing has always been a big turn-off to me.

[Captain Morgan]

:dthumb: Caring about their appearance & tastefully showing their ermm.... better assets... - but not being overly flashy/tacky (not that flashy/tacky can't be hot & fun to look at! :lol: ) I think the 'looks easy/flaky' thing has always been a big turn-off to me.

:lol: Looks easy/flaky is only a turn on if I want to take her home for one night.

[Dave]

liquor story? :lol:

you know, like goldilocks and the three beers

[goof2]

you know, like goldilocks and the three beers

Or Goldschlager and the three beers.

[karl_1052]

liquor story? :lol:

He can't afford to get them drunk on his own everytime he wants some.

[racedoll]

He can't afford to get them drunk on his own everytime he wants some.

:lol