I know we are all perfect angels here...

[Tsunami]

but from what you know

Are guys more likely to hit on a woman that is engaged? Or married? And why?

I would think married, just because they are more likely to be miserable :lol:

[TYEster]

I'd say engaged - it could still be in the guys' favor there before any legal documents are drawn.

[Apoc]

Angels? Not me! :lol:

Ring, no ring, if she turns me on, she turns me on. But if I notice a married woman being flirty, i'll go for that one, because you know exactly what they want. Its a 9/10 chance your in if she's got the schoolgirl giggle going on.

[Smittie61984]

When I was single and saw a ring I headed the other way. I'm not gay enough to know the difference between an engagement ring or wedding ring so I just assumed they were married.

But I have been hit on by more married women than engaged women.

If I was to go for one of the two I'd go for the married woman. Engaged women usually have some complex of awesomeness because they simply got proposed to and are "madly in love". Your 40 year old Yoga regular who is tired for her 280lb football watching, hotwing eating, and beer drinking couch potato husband is a much easier target.

[Homeslice]

:lol:

[marko138]

I hit on a married woman. My wife.

[Homeslice]

I hit a married woman. My wife.

Fixed.

[Sean]

If she's got a ring I assume she's not interested. Of course I'm not the one to be asking about these things...

[pauldun170]

Married,
Engaged usually means they are still caught up in the love\marriage plans\dream of a new life thing.

Married women are more likely to look for the fling once they discover their husband sucks

[racedoll]

Married women are more likely to look for the fling once they discover their husband sucks

And why is this?
It's like you guys are great being the boyfriend but husband is a completely different story. Then you wonder why we change.

[MILK]

And why is this?
It's like you guys are great being the boyfriend but husband is a completely different story. Then you wonder why we change.

Touche!!! :lol:

[sherri_chickie]

mind you a great boyfriend isn't necessarily the same as a great husband. Sometimes the traits you want in a boyfriend are not great for husband material.

[pauldun170]

And why is this?
It's like you guys are great being the boyfriend but husband is a completely different story. Then you wonder why we change.

Hey don't drag me into that old gag.
Some people are too much of a rush to get married and they get caught up in the whole thing.

Some women get so caught up in the wanting to get married and all the pomp and circumstance that their perception of the their boyfriend is completely different than the reality of who the guy really is. Blinded by romance...

I've seen a few divorces where the women were complaining how the guy turned into an asshole after they got married.

No sweetheart...he was an asshole all along. You just didn't want listen.

mind you a great boyfriend isn't necessarily the same as a great husband. Sometimes the traits you want in a boyfriend are not great for husband material.

True

[Smittie61984]

Some women get so caught up in the wanting to get married and all the pomp and circumstance that their perception of the their boyfriend is completely different than the reality of who the guy really is. Blinded by romance...

I've seen a few divorces where the women were complaining how the guy turned into an asshole after they got married.

No sweetheart...he was an asshole all along. You just didn't want listen.


I agree with a lot of that there but I think a lot of husbands become complacent.

Working in homes I saw a lot of it first hand. Good looking wife and a husband who is more worried about his college football team and golfing with friends than spending time with his wife. But at the same time he probably obsessed with the same shit when he was 20 as he does now that he is 40. She's just not into it at all anymore and now he's fat too. I think the divorce problem comes from this.

Women marry men hoping they'll change
Men marry women hoping they'll never change.

[pauldun170]

I agree with a lot of that there but I think a lot of husbands become complacent.

Working in homes I saw a lot of it first hand. Good looking wife and a husband who is more worried about his college football team and golfing with friends than spending time with his wife. But at the same time he probably obsessed with the same shit when he was 20 as he does now that he is 40. She's just not into it at all anymore and now he's fat too. I think the divorce problem comes from this.

Women marry men hoping they'll change
Men marry women hoping they'll never change.

Also true

[pauldun170]

Sometimes what it comes down to is that people just change as they grow older.
Hopefully a couple can change together gracefully.

[Rangerscott]

I find the answers amusing since a know a lot of you would say, "Fucking cheater" if this happened to you. The person with the married person is just a guilty.

[LeeNetworX]

Sometimes what it comes down to is that people just change as they grow older.
Hopefully a couple can change together gracefully.

Quoted for truth.

[Particle Man]

Paul nailed it: nobody "becomes" an ass after getting married... They were like that the whole time.

Now, people get GRUMPY as they get older... :lmao:

to answer the question: neither. I've been cheated on way too many times to put anyone through that crap.

[Tsunami]

Paul nailed it: nobody "becomes" an ass after getting married... They were like that the whole time.



Sometimes they are an ass to others but not to you and try hard to keep assphatdom at bay. Then you get married and they stop trying and unleash their assholeness at at you.

[Particle Man]

Release the Kraken!

[azoomm]

Cheating is interesting, in that, most people blame the "other" person. When the person with the commitment is the one in the wrong. If they were so worth keeping and true, they wouldn't have cheated.

The person that seeks someone looking to cheat isn't doing a damn thing wrong.

[pauldun170]

Sometimes they are an ass to others but not to you and try hard to keep assphatdom at bay. Then you get married and they stop trying and unleash their assholeness at at you.

The signs are always there beforehand.

However I've seen complete assholes do an about face and turn into awesome SO's

[HurricaneHeather]

Sometimes what it comes down to is that people just change as they grow older.
Hopefully a couple can change together gracefully.

Bingo.

[Cory]

but from what you know

Are guys more likely to hit on a woman that is engaged? Or married? And why?


Guys will hit on anything with boobs. Rings mean absolutely nothing :lol:

[Sean]

Guys will hit on anything with boobs. Rings mean absolutely nothing :lol:

mmmm....boobs.

[Particle Man]

Guys will hit on anything with boobs. Rings mean absolutely nothing :lol:

I think Smittie61984 said it best here:

http://www.twowheelfix.com/showpost.php?p=284547&postcount=11

Wedding ring on man = Pussy Magnet
No Wedding ring on man = Pussy Repelent

Wedding ring on woman = Dick Magnet
No wedding ring on woman = Dick Magnet
No fingers for wedding ring = Dick Magnet

[Cutty72]

Guys will hit on anything with boobs. Rings mean absolutely nothing :lol:

:boobs:

[Tsunami]

Guys will hit on anything with boobs. Rings mean absolutely nothing :lol:

I don't have boobs but I still get hit on :lol:

I'm asking because I am wondering if a fake engagement ring or a wedding band would be more of a deterrent.

[Papa_Complex]

I don't have boobs but I still get hit on :lol:

I'm asking because I am wondering if a fake engagement ring or a wedding band would be more of a deterrent.

It would only be a repellent to the non-scum.

[Rider]

Rings don't plug holes.

[Particle Man]

Rings don't plug holes.

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

[wildchild]

And why is this?
It's like you guys are great being the boyfriend but husband is a completely different story. Then you wonder why we change.

I'll give you my take on this. two options
option 1: guy is a lowlife so has a set amount of cash and "energy" with which to woo his chosen. she thinks he is a great find because he's always fun and adventurous. they get hitched. he has to come down to reality and can't afford to continue his dating lifestyle. she is not happy with "real" find.

option 2: guy is fun and adventurous and can afford it. he loves life. girl thinks that is great but once they settle now she wants him to "slow down" and cuddle. let's watch tv. she thinks she can tame his life. not going to happen unless he is a little bit of option 1 and was hoping for the taming to begin soon.

i vote married. engaged they actaully think they found the right guy and just want to tease you for some free drinks.

married will try it "just this once, cause they've never done this before"

[the chi]

I think someone else said it, but guys will hit on a woman regardless of if she has a ring or not, and honestly, I think I got hit on more when I got married than I did before.

When I was single I tried the ring thing and it was never a deterrent either.

Some guys think they have what it takes to "convince" you they are better, at least for a fling.

[Tsunami]

It would only be a repellent to the non-scum.

I'll repell non scum too. They are harder to turn down because I feel bad. If scum are hitting on me even with a ring, I have an excuse to be bitchy.

[Rangerscott]

How is the guy/gal that is hitting on/fucking/nipple grabbing not guilty? Even though the married person is cheating, YOU are not helping the marriage. Well you are helping the other spouse win the divorce court case. You might as well be called a snake.

So some of you guys are saying that it would be ok for a guy to fuck your wife and you would not be mad at the guy fucking your wife cause he's not the one cheating even though he probably knew she was married?

[Tsunami]

How is the guy/gal that is hitting on/fucking/nipple grabbing not guilty? Even though the married person is cheating, YOU are not helping the marriage. Well you are helping the other spouse win the divorce court case. You might as well be called a snake.

So some of you guys are saying that it would be ok for a guy to fuck your wife and you would not be mad at the guy fucking your wife cause he's not the one cheating even though he probably knew she was married?

They are both at fault

[wildchild]

How is the guy/gal that is hitting on/fucking/nipple grabbing not guilty? Even though the married person is cheating, YOU are not helping the marriage. Well you are helping the other spouse win the divorce court case. You might as well be called a snake.

So some of you guys are saying that it would be ok for a guy to fuck your wife and you would not be mad at the guy fucking your wife cause he's not the one cheating even though he probably knew she was married?


no just that when you catch them together, you give him the benefit of a fast death. hers you make more painful and enjoyable.

[cbrchick]

How is the guy/gal that is hitting on/fucking/nipple grabbing not guilty? Even though the married person is cheating, YOU are not helping the marriage. Well you are helping the other spouse win the divorce court case. You might as well be called a snake.

So some of you guys are saying that it would be ok for a guy to fuck your wife and you would not be mad at the guy fucking your wife cause he's not the one cheating even though he probably knew she was married?

I feel like we've covered this before... There are always divided camps.

I'm with you, I think they cheat-ee is just as awful as the cheater. Low morals. Guilty of bad taste and helping to break up a marriage. I'd be angry at both.

If someone was in the dark, as they had no idea their SO was in a relationship/marriage - a little bit different. But if you continue the relationship knowing full well you are dating a cheater.

You suck. Plain and simple...

K.

[Papa_Complex]

I'll repell non scum too. They are harder to turn down because I feel bad. If scum are hitting on me even with a ring, I have an excuse to be bitchy.

Wearing a T-shirt that says HIV+ might do the trick.

I feel like we've covered this before... There are always divided camps.

I'm with you, I think they cheat-ee is just as awful as the cheater. Low morals. Guilty of bad taste and helping to break up a marriage. I'd be angry at both.

If someone was in the dark, as they had no idea their SO was in a relationship/marriage - a little bit different. But if you continue the relationship knowing full well you are dating a cheater.

You suck. Plain and simple...

K.

The only difference between the two is that one of them didn't promise you anything.