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CrazyKell
08-12-2010, 08:19 AM
It is with great sadness that I make this post.

Learned today that a very good friend passed away last night due to complications after a routine surgery.

I still can't believe this is happening and I feel like I'm going to wake up at any moment from this sick dream.

Of all the ways to die.....I've always expected this call would be about a riding accident. I've been fortunate enough to have known very few people who have passed away from riding.

this just sucks. :(

CasterTroy
08-12-2010, 08:34 AM
So sorry.....losing a friend is terrible....especially THAT way.

You're in my thoughts and prayers

Adeptus_Minor
08-12-2010, 09:06 AM
Sorry Kell :(

I lost a friend a couple of months ago to cancer.
I don't know if it would have been worse if it had happened suddenly, but it still has an unreal quality about it.

VatorMan
08-12-2010, 09:08 AM
So sorry. :(

zlicius
08-12-2010, 09:47 AM
geez, that's horrible. I'm sorry.

smileyman
08-12-2010, 10:01 AM
Sympathies and condolences for you and the family. Keep it all in perspective and enjoy each day accordingly. Life is fleeting...

z06boy
08-12-2010, 10:14 AM
Sorry to hear.


Any details ? I only ask since it was 'routine' surgery.

CrazyKell
08-12-2010, 10:41 AM
Thanks all.

He had shoulder surgery from an injury he suffered at work a few months back. Told the nurses he didn't feel well after the surgery but they sent him home anyways. At home, his father went to check on him and found him unresponsive and foaming at the mouth. Called 911 and started to perform CPR but it was too late.

I'm still in shock. He was only 36 and I'd just spoken to him yesterday.

His last status update on facebook (totally typical of him):
hahaha. so I'm laying on the bed and a nurse comes and puts a sheet on me. I say " I'm not cold thanks" and she says " its not for cold it because your flashing all the nurses" bahahahahahahaha.

I still can't believe this is happening. Feels like a cruel joke.

z06boy
08-12-2010, 10:43 AM
Thanks all.

He had shoulder surgery from an injury he suffered at work a few months back. Told the nurses he didn't feel well after the surgery but they sent him home anyways. At home, his father went to check on him and found him unresponsive and foaming at the mouth. Called 911 and started to perform CPR but it was too late.

I'm still in shock. He was only 36 and I'd just spoken to him yesterday.

His last status update on facebook (totally typical of him):
hahaha. so I'm laying on the bed and a nurse comes and puts a sheet on me. I say " I'm not cold thanks" and she says " its not for cold it because your flashing all the nurses" bahahahahahahaha.

I still can't believe this is happening. Feels like a cruel joke.

OMG...that is terrible !!

Avatard
08-12-2010, 11:31 AM
That's terrible, Kell. Sorry for your loss.

the chi
08-12-2010, 12:19 PM
So terrible, I'm sorry for your loss and my condolences to his family.

skiergirl
08-12-2010, 12:30 PM
Sorry to hear Kel...

CrazyKell
08-12-2010, 12:54 PM
It's so weird because my day is carrying on as normal.....but it's not normal and it's not ever going to be normal again. The new normal is him not in this world. :(

Just trying to keep myself busy and keep my mind off of it. :(

Particle Man
08-12-2010, 12:54 PM
more unexpected than unexpected should be. :(

that's horrible.

skiergirl
08-12-2010, 01:01 PM
It's so weird because my day is carrying on as normal.....but it's not normal and it's not ever going to be normal again. The new normal is him not in this world. :(

Just trying to keep myself busy and keep my mind off of it. :(

That's about all you can do, Mom passed away 2 1/2 weeks ago now but today would have been her b-day. It's weird to not call her and wish her well.....but life does go on and it doesn't slow down for anyone even though it seems like it should sometimes.

pauldun170
08-12-2010, 02:12 PM
Holy crap!!

Sorry Kel

njchopper87
08-12-2010, 02:23 PM
:/ Sorry kell. That shit was supposed to help, not hurt. :(

tached1000rr
08-12-2010, 07:36 PM
Sorry to hear....

Curb
08-12-2010, 08:32 PM
I'm sorry, Kel.

I've lost several people close to me in the past 18 months. It's never easy and yes life does go on, and it will never be the same for you. But just remember your friend and don't forget the good times.

stanger92
08-13-2010, 01:58 AM
obama supporters........where are you?

canada's socialized healthcare WORKS........right?

gavilan
08-13-2010, 05:20 PM
Sorry about your loss, Kell. :(

'73 H1 Triple
08-13-2010, 07:23 PM
Sorry about your friend Kell. Life isn't always fair.


Jeff

cbrchick
08-14-2010, 09:00 PM
obama supporters........where are you?

canada's socialized healthcare WORKS........right?

You're an idiot. Go troll somewhere else. Not only do you have no idea what you are talking about, you're doing it in the wrong place....

101lifts2
08-14-2010, 10:07 PM
obama supporters........where are you?

canada's socialized healthcare WORKS........right?

Ah good ole Stang!


RIP

anthonyk
08-14-2010, 10:25 PM
Jeez, sorry to hear that Kell. :(

ericr
08-15-2010, 09:32 AM
Sorry Kell, that sucks :(

Evadd
08-16-2010, 02:32 AM
sorry to hear it, Kel. :( (and you too, Skiergirl).

julie j
08-16-2010, 11:51 AM
So sorry for your loss

CrazyKell
08-19-2010, 09:20 AM
We did a memorial ride for him last night and it was when it all became real for me. Cried nearly the whole time but it was amazing to see the support and how a group of riders can come together.

I know he was looking down (or up) on us that night.

LeeNetworX
08-19-2010, 09:55 AM
How did I miss this thread? Sorry to hear that, Kel.