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Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 07:42 AM
Sign of the times, I guess. Yesterday I got a message on Facepalm asking if I would pass on the phone number of someone's friend to the girl I went to a Hallowe'en party with. Neither person had a clue what relationship their might be between this girl and myself, other than we were obviously there together.

What thought process, if any, would lead a person to do something like that?
Trip
10-31-2012, 07:46 AM
Is it a male looking for a female? It's an easy thought process...

Are you male? Do you have a penis? Is there some where you want to stick it?
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 08:12 AM
That's about it, but I wouldn't refer to it as 'thought.' Seems that the concept of propriety has been thrown right out the window.
Adeptus_Minor
10-31-2012, 08:35 AM
Wow... Yeah... about that. :scratch:
azoomm
10-31-2012, 09:13 AM
Is it a male looking for a female? It's an easy thought process...

Are you male? Do you have a penis? Is there some where you want to stick it?

Wait, there's a thought process?
Trip
10-31-2012, 09:15 AM
Wait, there's a thought process?

Yeah, you have to process the image of the girl so you can decide to screw or not to screw, then the brain shuts down again.
CasterTroy
10-31-2012, 09:45 AM
Yeah, you have to process the image of the girl so you can decide to screw or not to screw, then the brain shuts down again.

And even then, it's not so much a process as a weight limit
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 10:03 AM
Yeah, you have to process the image of the girl so you can decide to screw or not to screw, then the brain shuts down again.

So would YOU send a message to a guy who you saw on a date with a hot girl, asking that guy to give her your phone number?

*EDIT* And don't give me that, "But I'm married....." bullshit because if you would do that, then marriage likely isn't a barrier either.
Trip
10-31-2012, 10:11 AM
So would YOU send a message to a guy who you saw on a date with a hot girl, asking that guy to give her your phone number?

*EDIT* And don't give me that, "But I'm married....." bullshit because if you would do that, then marriage likely isn't a barrier either.

I am confused because I read it wrong. I thought he was asking for a number of a friend of the the girl you were on a date with... If he is asking for the number of the girl you were on the date with, I would send him this:

http://witwisdom.files.wordpress.com/2011/02/jesus-giving-the-finger.jpg
Homeslice
10-31-2012, 10:13 AM
Could there have been any reason why they didn't think you 2 were really there "together"
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 10:37 AM
Could there have been any reason why they didn't think you 2 were really there "together"

We were there together and spent 90% of the night together at the party. Since I don't advertise my "relationship status" on Facebook like a 12 year old girl, they would have no reason to think we weren't a couple. The party was being thrown by two different groups and if anyone had the presence of mind to ask anyone from the group who actually knows me they wouldn't have needed to contact me, in order to have the number passed on.

*EDIT* We were both talking to the guy who wanted to get his number to her, and the question never came up.
Trip
10-31-2012, 10:43 AM
Is it possible he was hoping someone else in the group was friends with her and could get it to her behind your back?

Guy sounds like a fuckin douchebag and also sounds like you may need a new group of friends. Well except for the friend that was cool enough to tell you what the fuck was going on.
defector
10-31-2012, 10:44 AM
Give the guy your phone number. Have some fun when he calls.
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 10:49 AM
Is it possible he was hoping someone else in the group was friends with her and could get it to her behind your back?

Guy sounds like a fuckin douchebag and also sounds like you may need a new group of friends. Well except for the friend that was cool enough to tell you what the fuck was going on.

The person who contacted me was the other host of the party; the one I didn't know. She was the one who asked me to pass on the number, at the request of her friend who was the guy I didn't know, but had talked to at the party. I had never met either of them before this party. The person who contacted me specifically sent a friend request through Facebook to do this. As it was someone whose home I had been in I accepted, when normally I wouldn't have.

No less a douchebag for asking someone else to do the dirty work. More like a douche AND a coward :lol:
shmike
10-31-2012, 10:49 AM
So; ARE you a couple?

Did you hit it that night (or any other night)?
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 10:51 AM
So; ARE you a couple?

Did you hit it that night?

Nope, not a couple, and as to the other question I guess I must be one of the last gentlemen left on Earth ;)
Trip
10-31-2012, 10:53 AM
Nope, not a couple, and as to the other question I guess I must be one of the last gentlemen left on Earth ;)

Are you going to hit it eventually or did it not work out?
fasternyou929
10-31-2012, 10:59 AM
Nope, not a couple, and as to the other question I guess I must be one of the last gentlemen left on Earth ;)

Invoking the "gentleman" cliche when nobody here knows the by name or appearance is pretty transparent.

What I gather: whether you were interested in the girl or not, things didn't work out. Now someone else is encroaching on your desired territory and you're getting bent about it.
shmike
10-31-2012, 11:00 AM
Nope, not a couple, and as to the other question I guess I must be one of the last gentlemen left on Earth ;)

So what's the problem?

Should he give you ten days?

Is he a star?

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/an-S5jR2uunJhbJmm/funny_people_2009_after_mark_slept_with_daisy/
Homeslice
10-31-2012, 11:04 AM
Not a couple as in, only dated a few times and nothing exclusive yet?

Or not a couple as in, she has let it be known that you're just a friend? (and possibly told someone during the party while you weren't within earshot).
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 11:50 AM
Not a couple as in I've known her for more than 10 years and we go out occasionally, but nothing serious. It's got nothing to do with my 'desired territory', but rather common courtesy.
Trip
10-31-2012, 12:05 PM
Not a couple as in I've known her for more than 10 years and we go out occasionally, but nothing serious. It's got nothing to do with my 'desired territory', but rather common courtesy.

shit or get off the pot, maybe the guy saw something he really liked and wanted to see if there was potential for chemistry.

there really is no common courtesy when it comes to relationships. If he had real interest in seeing this girl, I don't blame him for trying to find out more info. There are classier ways to approach it though than just sending a request for her number through your friends.
CasterTroy
10-31-2012, 12:55 PM
So...friends with occasional benefits?

So she's a back-up for when you're not nailing something new or steady?

shit or get off the pot


This for sure!
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 01:06 PM
So...friends with occasional benefits?

So she's a back-up for when you're not nailing something new or steady?

This for sure!

Likely more the other way around, than that.

Hell, I should have taken the hottie who's a whole legal woman younger than me instead, so you guys wouldn't bother with this crap :lol:
CasterTroy
10-31-2012, 01:12 PM
Whatta you expect from a bunch of married men?!?! We've got nothing but YOU to live thru vicariously! Sheesh man!
Kaneman
10-31-2012, 01:14 PM
Is it a male looking for a female? It's an easy thought process...

Are you male? Do you have a penis? Is there some where you want to stick it?

Legit lol!!! hahahaha
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 02:52 PM
shit or get off the pot, maybe the guy saw something he really liked and wanted to see if there was potential for chemistry.

there really is no common courtesy when it comes to relationships. If he had real interest in seeing this girl, I don't blame him for trying to find out more info. There are classier ways to approach it though than just sending a request for her number through your friends.

There are MUCH classier ways that asking a friend to ask the guy who she was out with, when you met her ;)
Trip
10-31-2012, 03:09 PM
So what did you tell the friend to tell him? Is there any resolution to this situation?
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 03:21 PM
Weighed various options and then I said that I'd pass on the number, and then came here to complain. She'll deal with it as she sees fit. Buddy was a drunk lugan at the party, so I'm willing to bet that he didn't really impress her much. If she does call him, he'll wish that she didn't :lol:
Apoc
10-31-2012, 03:42 PM
Maybe dude asked this girl if you and chickie were a couple, or just friends, and girly gave him the second answer? Im doubting he asked for the pass along unless someone pointed out that you two were not a couple. But then again, who knows.

Then again, back when I was juicing, I had a real thing for other mens women (who am I kidding, nothing has changed). Why? because I knew nothing more than sex would come of it.

Got caught once.
Chicks husband: Im gonna fucking kill you.
I jump out of bed, about 3x his size
Chicks Husband: I mean i'm gonna kill her!
:lol
Trip
10-31-2012, 04:21 PM
That's fucked up apoc lol
Papa_Complex
10-31-2012, 06:07 PM
Maybe dude asked this girl if you and chickie were a couple, or just friends, and girly gave him the second answer? Im doubting he asked for the pass along unless someone pointed out that you two were not a couple. But then again, who knows.

Then again, back when I was juicing, I had a real thing for other mens women (who am I kidding, nothing has changed). Why? because I knew nothing more than sex would come of it.

Got caught once.
Chicks husband: Im gonna fucking kill you.
I jump out of bed, about 3x his size
Chicks Husband: I mean i'm gonna kill her!
:lol

If he asked her, she wouldn't have had a clue. Like I said, neither of them knew either of us.

Was that the woman you were seeing, but rather abruptly stopped mentioning on CF a few years back? :lol:
Apoc
10-31-2012, 06:48 PM
If he asked her, she wouldn't have had a clue. Like I said, neither of them knew either of us.

Was that the woman you were seeing, but rather abruptly stopped mentioning on CF a few years back? :lol:

More than likely. Either that, or she was a gf i was cheating on and got caught. I don't pretend to be a bastion of moral integrity.
Papa_Complex
11-01-2012, 01:25 PM
More than likely. Either that, or she was a gf i was cheating on and got caught. I don't pretend to be a bastion of moral integrity.

No. No you don't, and I don't 'pretend. Friggin' stick in the mud :lol:
Particle Man
11-01-2012, 06:03 PM
Geez, the answer is: fuck his sister.
azoomm
11-01-2012, 08:34 PM
Not a couple as in I've known her for more than 10 years and we go out occasionally, but nothing serious. It's got nothing to do with my 'desired territory', but rather common courtesy.

Ok.

So, you went out in public with someone you don't date. Someone decides to make a move, through a host from the party. The number is given to you to give to her.

Are you sure the hostess isn't the problem?

Hell, at least he went through someone after and didn't just walk up to her with you there.
Papa_Complex
11-02-2012, 06:44 AM
Ok.

So, you went out in public with someone you don't date. Someone decides to make a move, through a host from the party. The number is given to you to give to her.

Are you sure the hostess isn't the problem?

Hell, at least he went through someone after and didn't just walk up to her with you there.

Given that both of us were talking to him, at the same time, there would have been no 'walking up.' At least if he had done it then it would have shown some balls, given that we were obviously there together. No tact, but at least balls.
azoomm
11-02-2012, 07:08 AM
Given that both of us were talking to him, at the same time, there would have been no 'walking up.' At least if he had done it then it would have shown some balls, given that we were obviously there together. No tact, but at least balls.
Yeah, maybe I'm losing something in the translation. But, the only thing I see wrong with it is the hostess went to you. Unless that hostess knew you weren't dating and were just friends.
Papa_Complex
11-02-2012, 07:14 AM
Yeah, maybe I'm losing something in the translation. But, the only thing I see wrong with it is the hostess went to you. Unless that hostess knew you weren't dating and were just friends.

She didn't. She also didn't ask.
Trip
11-02-2012, 07:24 AM
Is it possible he asked the persons that asked you for the number to find out more information and to get the number if possible in a better way than they did, but the people that asked you were lazy fucks who just said "GIMME HER NUMBA!"
Papa_Complex
11-02-2012, 08:45 AM
Is it possible he asked the persons that asked you for the number to find out more information and to get the number if possible in a better way than they did, but the people that asked you were lazy fucks who just said "GIMME HER NUMBA!"

Don't think so. Possible? Anything is possible, but I don't think that dinosaurs fought the Nazis in WWII either.
Trip
11-02-2012, 08:53 AM
Don't think so. Possible? Anything is possible, but I don't think that dinosaurs fought the Nazis in WWII either.

Of course they didn't fight the nazis... they fought for them

http://media.nowpublic.net/images//ec/f/ecf88e039beeb820ef9839a567aaab9b.jpg
Papa_Complex
11-02-2012, 11:42 AM
:lol:
azoomm
11-02-2012, 12:42 PM
So would YOU send a message to a guy who you saw on a date with a hot girl, asking that guy to give her your phone number?

*EDIT* And don't give me that, "But I'm married....." bullshit because if you would do that, then marriage likely isn't a barrier either.
Sorry, I read it wrong thinking person A wanted to give your date person B's phone number through you. I had to go back and read they wanted you to give up your date's number.

When I was single I hung out with a pretty large group of riding friends. I guess I was a good wingman :lol: occasionally someone outside of that circle would give me their number through someone in the circle. Granted, I didn't ever go out with the person dishing a number that way, but it's not uncommon.
Adeptus_Minor
11-02-2012, 08:16 PM
Sorry, I read it wrong thinking person A wanted to give your date person B's phone number through you.


That's how I read it too... :idk:
Either way, awkward situation, I think.