Playing hard to get?
 

Playing hard to get... yes, no, somewhere in between. Saw an article yesterday about it, had different points of views. Thoughts?

Some guys like it, some don't.

I fall into the latter and think it's dumb. I like things straight forward.

I agree. You play hard to get, you'll miss an opportunity. I'm not going to waste my time on anyone who doesn't show interest.

Agreed

Hard to get is an old fashined concept.

If you want somebody, take off the panties and shove them in his jeans pocket.

If he likes you, he will let you know.

Majority rules here.

It depends on what a person wants.

If a girl wants to get laid play easy to get and someone will get hard. Afterward a lot of guys will then play their version of hard to get by not answering their phone or returning calls.

If a girl wants a relationship somewhere in between is probably the best plan. Most guys, myself included, will not put up with the hard to get bullshit. It gets tired pretty damn quick. At the same time I probably don't want to be long term relationship with a girl who was so easy you probably can't throw a rock without hitting someone she banged.

I'm married so I'll just make yap pointless nonsense a bits


Define hard to get

We talking bumpin uglies or getting a date....in other word time to getting physical or simpy one on one face time.

If someone feels the need to play hard to get...fuck em and their mind games.
There's a natural flow to a relationship and if someone wants to fuck with that flow to make "the other person work for it" then that someone should either pay me for the work performed or better have a nice dental plan to offer.

However if someone wants to take the relationship slow thats fine.

I like a little hard to get, but if I need to do anything more than entertain you for more than a few hours to get you to go out with me then I'm walking to the next girl down the line.

Not sure if this is about women or men, but in my experience women seem to enjoy men who act disinterested.