age/women

Dova80 · 01-06-2009, 09:17 PM

Seems all of a sudden my age is starting to tarnish my though of it being just a number. Yes it is just a number, but I am starting to see the fuse burning so to speak, turning 28 only two more years till I am 30. I had always thought I would get married by 30, now the pickings of women has be reevaluating where I stand. It seems women are just crazy anymore, or perhaps I am but I am guessing the former. The lack of moral fiber in people in general is atrocious, the lack of general courtesy is appalling, and finding a girl without children and tattoos seems to be getting damn near impossible. This is very detrimental to my idea of having a family.

I am curious does anyone else have this problem? Perhaps my standards are to high for my income?

its time for another rum and pepsi...

VatorMan · 01-06-2009, 09:21 PM

Damn glad I don't have to date right now. Finding a well adjusted partner seems to be a problem these days. Maybe you are throwing off a bad vibe as well?

Dova80 · 01-06-2009, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by VatorMan

Damn glad I don't have to date right now. Finding a well adjusted partner seems to be a problem these days. Maybe you are throwing off a bad vibe as well?

Probably my outlook is not the best in the world.. It is just a downward spiral of death, your not happy, others see it, you project it, and until you find happiness you will continue the cycle. Lesson learned, drink and be merry.

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Originally Posted by Dave

im turning 27 at the end of the month. im so excited to know its not getting any better

Well I thought it was just in my area, perhaps its a nation wide fad of women being worthless?

Dave · 01-06-2009, 09:22 PM

im turning 27 at the end of the month. im so excited to know its not getting any better

Homeslice · 01-07-2009, 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Dave

im turning 27 at the end of the month. im so excited to know its not getting any better

Bitch please. Someone your age can hit anything. High school girls, college girls, right on up to MILF's who just want some young stud to bang. It isn't until you pass 35 that your options start decreasing.

Dave · 01-07-2009, 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Homeslice

Bitch please. Someone your age can hit anything. High school girls, college girls, right on up to MILF's who just want some young stud to bang. It isn't until you pass 35 that your options start decreasing.

lmao i was trying to help him feel better.

Papa_Complex · 01-07-2009, 07:33 AM

Geez people, get over the ticking clock. I'm 45 and never married. Got close 20 years ago but fortunately she realized that she was insane, before I did, and walked out on me. Every now and then I run into some girl who was a hottie back in high school or college, who tells me that she had "the biggest crush" on me but for some reason wouldn't give me the time of day back then, and I realize how goddamn lucky I was she didn't.

Too many people these days jump on the "starter marriage" and then split, screwing themselves up for the rest of their lives, both emotionally and financially. Give it a little time, find the right person, and WORK ON IT. Don't walk away when you hit the first snag and don't find out the hard way that the other person snores like a chainsaw, and eats with their toes if you can't take that.

At this point all that I'm seeing available around me are women with tats and pierced navels, who say that they are looking for a cross between Brad Pitt and John the Baptist, but who seem to constantly end up with a cross between Ben Affleck and Attila the Hun with commitment issues. The single guys I know are all looking for a stripper who went to Le Cordon Bleu, and likes to cook all day while wearing nothing but ankle socks. You can only live in a beer commercial, in a beer commercial.

Forget TV and live in the world we have.

Mr Lefty · 01-07-2009, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Papa_Complex

Geez people, get over the ticking clock. I'm 45 and never married. Got close 20 years ago but fortunately she realized that she was insane, before I did, and walked out on me. Every now and then I run into some girl who was a hottie back in high school or college, who tells me that she had "the biggest crush" on me but for some reason wouldn't give me the time of day back then, and I realize how goddamn lucky I was she didn't.

Too many people these days jump on the "starter marriage" and then split, screwing themselves up for the rest of their lives, both emotionally and financially. Give it a little time, find the right person, and WORK ON IT. Don't walk away when you hit the first snag and don't find out the hard way that the other person snores like a chainsaw, and eats with their toes if you can't take that.

At this point all that I'm seeing available around me are women with tats and pierced navels, who say that they are looking for a cross between Brad Pitt and John the Baptist, but who seem to constantly end up with a cross between Ben Affleck and Attila the Hun with commitment issues. The single guys I know are all looking for a stripper who went to Le Cordon Bleu, and likes to cook all day while wearing nothing but ankle socks. You can only live in a beer commercial, in a beer commercial.

Forget TV and live in the world we have.

honestly... THAT is my problem. I don't date to just date. there has to be some sort of possibility of a long term relationship.

I will get married once. PERIOD. I hate divorces... I think they happen WAY to often for a variety of reasons... but usually because people jump in to them to early... or quit. mostly the latter IMO... not everyone who married in the 30's or 40's was right for each other... nor did they go with out think'n they got into something they weren't ready for... but they made a commitment and stuck to it. now... they quit. and on one hand I can understand, if you realize 5 years down the road, damn this person has changed or really isn't who I thought they were after try'n to make it work. but that's all the more reason to take your time before make'n that jump.

now I'm not condemning anyone who's had a divorce... I could care less what you or anyone has done in their personal lives... that's just how I choose to live my life...

Mr Lefty · 01-06-2009, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Dova80

Seems all of a sudden my age is starting to tarnish my though of it being just a number. Yes it is just a number, but I am starting to see the fuse burning so to speak, turning 28 only two more years till I am 30. I had always thought I would get married by 30, now the pickings of women has be reevaluating where I stand. It seems women are just crazy anymore, or perhaps I am but I am guessing the former. The lack of moral fiber in people in general is atrocious, the lack of general courtesy is appalling, and finding a girl without children and tattoos seems to be getting damn near impossible. This is very detrimental to my idea of having a family.

I am curious does anyone else have this problem? Perhaps my standards are to high for my income?

its time for another rum and pepsi...

I hear ya... at 23 I met the girl I was gonna merry but told myself I didn't wanna get married till I was 25 back when I was like 18... and I held on to that...

Now 5 almost 6 years later... I'm single... the girl is now married with two kids... and with my insanely picky nature... the picking is go'n on nill...

I did find one not too long ago that was quite an ideal catch... only problem... someone else "caught" her before I could.

your not alone brother...

but honestly... I've put to rest the idea of family... at least in any sort of near future... and look'n to work on the things that intrest me... while I still can... like ROAD TRIPS!

Particle Man · 01-06-2009, 09:31 PM

it's not your income that makes your standard too high.... it's the people around you.

people can be bastards.

01-06-2009, 09:17 PM	#1
Dova80 Canyon Carver Join Date: Nov 2008 Moto: MV Agusta Posts: 320	age/women Seems all of a sudden my age is starting to tarnish my though of it being just a number. Yes it is just a number, but I am starting to see the fuse burning so to speak, turning 28 only two more years till I am 30. I had always thought I would get married by 30, now the pickings of women has be reevaluating where I stand. It seems women are just crazy anymore, or perhaps I am but I am guessing the former. The lack of moral fiber in people in general is atrocious, the lack of general courtesy is appalling, and finding a girl without children and tattoos seems to be getting damn near impossible. This is very detrimental to my idea of having a family. I am curious does anyone else have this problem? Perhaps my standards are to high for my income? its time for another rum and pepsi... __________________ I do not avoid women...but I do deny them my essence. We can make assumptions all day, and you know what they say about assuming. It means you're a fucking moron.

01-06-2009, 09:22 PM	#4
Dave Chaotic Neutral Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Cherry Hill NJ Moto: GV1200 Madura, Hawk gt Posts: 13,992	im turning 27 at the end of the month. im so excited to know its not getting any better __________________ TWF Post whore #6

01-06-2009, 09:31 PM	#10
Particle Man Custom User Title Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Central NY Moto: 2003 SV650S Posts: 14,959	it's not your income that makes your standard too high.... it's the people around you. people can be bastards. __________________ I'm not "fat." I'm "Enlarged to show texture." Handle every stressful situation like a DOG: If you can't eat it or hump it, pi$$ on it & walk away.

01-06-2009, 09:21 PM	#2
VatorMan Wrap Yo Ass in Fiberglass Join Date: Feb 2008 Moto: Feet Posts: 1,605	Damn glad I don't have to date right now. Finding a well adjusted partner seems to be a problem these days. Maybe you are throwing off a bad vibe as well?

01-07-2009, 07:33 AM	#7
Papa_Complex Nomadic Tribesman Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Brampton, Canada Moto: '09 ER-6n Posts: 11,150	Geez people, get over the ticking clock. I'm 45 and never married. Got close 20 years ago but fortunately she realized that she was insane, before I did, and walked out on me. Every now and then I run into some girl who was a hottie back in high school or college, who tells me that she had "the biggest crush" on me but for some reason wouldn't give me the time of day back then, and I realize how goddamn lucky I was she didn't. Too many people these days jump on the "starter marriage" and then split, screwing themselves up for the rest of their lives, both emotionally and financially. Give it a little time, find the right person, and WORK ON IT. Don't walk away when you hit the first snag and don't find out the hard way that the other person snores like a chainsaw, and eats with their toes if you can't take that. At this point all that I'm seeing available around me are women with tats and pierced navels, who say that they are looking for a cross between Brad Pitt and John the Baptist, but who seem to constantly end up with a cross between Ben Affleck and Attila the Hun with commitment issues. The single guys I know are all looking for a stripper who went to Le Cordon Bleu, and likes to cook all day while wearing nothing but ankle socks. You can only live in a beer commercial, in a beer commercial. Forget TV and live in the world we have.